7.24【晚八点红包】孩子帮忙做家务，该不该给物质奖励？说说你的理由！
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孩子劳动与物质金钱挂钩后，他们潜意识里就会变得斤斤计较，感觉父母做什么都是应该应分的，我们要从小教育孩子，要让他知道做家务是家庭成员每个人的义务，孩子做完家务后可以及时的用欣赏的语气说，地被你扫的这么干净，看着就心情舒畅，或者说；幸亏有你帮忙，要不妈妈又要做很长时间了，有你帮忙，一会就搞完了等等，这样孩子做了家务还得到了表扬，是不是有满满的成就感和责任感。 不应该，要让小孩知道他是家庭一员，是家里的人就有义务做家务。
不该给，孩子是德智体美劳全面发展，劳动也是光荣的，所以应该让孩子主动做力所能及的事情！
不应该，要给他说他也是家里的一份子是应该做的
不主动给，不能作为交换条件
不
看在什么样的情况下
不应该。
这个每个家庭都有不同的方式，不一定
不
不应该，
溢溢溢 发表于 2021-7-24 14:40
不
理由呢？朋友，看清话题是怎么问的再回帖哦！
树叶子 发表于 2021-7-24 14:47
不应该，
理由？
不应该
荒年。 发表于 2021-7-24 14:51
不应该
又一个敷衍我的{:7_375:}
番茄我是西红柿 发表于 2021-7-24 14:50
不应该，要给他说他也是家里的一份子是应该做的
嗯，不错哦{:7_373:}
我个人认为如果孩子做家务是不应该给予奖励的，其他的事情可以给物质奖励。如果孩子帮着父母做了家务而得到了物质奖励，他们就会潜意识就会觉得没钱花了，回家帮父母做家务我就又有钱了 适当的给予，收放自如。
给钱能做事都是好孩子了，就怕你说给钱他都不愿意做，没钱用还是找你要去，现在孩子太懒了